What is Self & What is Not-Self?

How do you recognize when you are living in alignment with your Self?

There may be a pattern shaping your life that formed long before you had language for it.

You may be living from pain that was experienced and never tended to through healing, alchemy, or integration.

Early relational imprints shape how you see yourself, others, and the world.

These experiences organize perception and belief, and over time they become the filters through which you interpret your life.

You carry these patterns into who you trust and who you choose.

You carry them into your beliefs about worth, capacity, and what is possible.

They influence how safe you feel being seen and how much of yourself you allow to be expressed.

Many relationships and life decisions are formed through unhealed pain.

Your life may become organized around the imprints of undigested or traumatic experience rather than around your true Self.

You may begin to identify more with what happened to you than with who you are.

The Not Self is the protective structure that formed in response to those early experiences.

It is intelligent and it once helped you survive.

The difficulty arises when that protective structure becomes the primary organizer of your identity and quietly replaces your inner authority.

Alignment with your Self is the embodied experience of coherence in which your inner knowing and your outward action move together from a steady authority that does not require defense or self abandonment.

When you live from conditioning and inherited belief, there is an energetic cost.

That cost shows up in your body, in your relationships, and in decisions that feel subtly misaligned even when they appear responsible.

It shows up when you override your own signals in order to maintain belonging.

Beneath conditioning, there is a part of you that remains whole.

There is a steady place within you that has not been fragmented by pain.

The work is learning to distinguish inherited belief from the authority of your body and tending the patterns that formed through early experience so that your life is no longer organized around protection.

Where in your life are you forcing a yes when your body is signaling no, and what is the internal cost of that pattern?

When conditioning organizes your life, it can lead to isolation. It can leave you feeling unseen or misunderstood.

It can create symptoms that seem unexplainable. You are not alone.

Healing begins when you notice where you are overriding yourself and choose to meet yourself with gentleness as you shift.

If you are ready to return to the authority of your body and live from your holy, whole, and healed Self, I invite you into what I offer through Sessions, Ceremonies, Medicine Days, Retreats, and Temple Memberships. >>> https://www.naomilove.org

Each doorway is designed to restore coherence in real time and support you in embodying your Self in daily life.

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In Devotion,

Naomi Amaya Love