Couples Medicine Days
Deepen your intimacy, strengthen your bond, and learn to meet one another with greater vulnerability and love.
In relationships, love gets buried beneath layers of betrayal, frustration, exhaustion, trauma, past hurts, and misunderstandings that accumulate over time.
The argument is rarely about the thing you are arguing about. Underneath it sits a need that went unspoken, a fear neither of you named, a hurt that arrived long before this relationship did. That is what keeps the cycle turning, and it is why the same conversation returns no matter how carefully either of you tries to have it differently.
Humans heal through relationship, not in isolation. Relationship is where the untended places surface, which is what makes it the hardest ground and the most fertile.
Friendships, families, and partnerships all need tending. Without it, what went unsaid accumulates, and the relationship itself begins to carry the weight. Over time that density separates you from your own heart, from the medicine that lives in it, and from the ability to see the other clearly, until the bond that once felt nourishing begins to feel heavy.
Here, the hurt that has accumulated is met and tended, and the patterns that created the distance soften. What is between you becomes a place where love, safety, and honest connection grow again, and intimacy and trust strengthen as the layers release, allowing bodies and hearts to find their way back to resting together.
Couples also come to strengthen what they already share. You may want more intimacy, vulnerability, tenderness, pleasure, or a greater experience of being known and loved by one another. You may want to step outside your usual ways of relating and give your relationship the time and attention it deserves.
For couples who want more than a traditional session provides, ceremony, Tantra, sensual practices, and other plant and energetic medicines can be woven into the experience when appropriate. We make room for intimacy, vulnerability, touch, pleasure, presence, and the ways love is expressed through the body. Mycelium journeys, Kanna, Hapé, fire ceremony, ketamine journeys for couples, and other forms of medicine can be included when they are appropriate for both of you.
Each session begins with a coherence meditation, setting the tone for our time together, and from there the session meets the shared intention.
You will learn the art of personal and relational sovereignty. Each person is heard, seen, witnessed, and acknowledged, and each person also witnesses the other. You learn to speak what is true from your inner experience, to listen without taking on what does not belong to you, and to know what is yours to tend and what you have been carrying for someone else. Boundaries become clearer, the roles you have each taken on begin to loosen, and responsibility lands where it belongs.
Couples work is available as individual sessions, half-day immersions, and full-day Medicine Days. The longer containers give us more room for ceremony, bodywork, relational practices, medicine, intimacy, sensual exploration, rest, and integration.
Repair takes time, and intimacy grows with attention. Whether you are tending a rupture or choosing to love one another more fully, the relationship becomes the place where you practice something new together.
To begin, I ask that each person books an individual 90-minute session. From there we work together to determine the container that best supports your relationship.
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Who Is This For?
You want to deepen in the relationship you share, whether you are tending a rupture, moving through a transition, or ready to experience more love, intimacy, vulnerability, and connection together.
What is between you feels clouded by unresolved hurt, unspoken grief, old wounds, or misunderstandings that have never been fully tended.
You are caught in cycles of conflict or disconnection that continue even though you have tried to change them.
You feel unseen, unheard, blamed, or exhausted by the dynamic between you and need a place where each person can be heard and understood.
You are carrying grief, anger, disappointment, or longing that needs somewhere to be met.
You want to be witnessed and acknowledged, and you want to learn how to witness the other person without abandoning yourself.
You are ready to put down the defenses that keep the two of you from reaching one another and become more vulnerable, honest, and present together.
You want to deepen an already loving relationship through greater intimacy, tenderness, trust, vulnerability, sensuality, and connection.
You want to deepen the bond you already share and create more intimacy, trust, tenderness, and pleasure in your relationship.
You want to become more vulnerable with one another and feel safer being fully seen, known, touched, and received.
You want to bring more sensuality, play, affection, and presence into your relationship and explore how love is experienced through the body.
You want to create intentional time together that is devoted entirely to your relationship, away from the demands and distractions of ordinary life.
You want to explore ceremony, Tantra, and other forms of medicine as a way to open new dimensions of connection and experience one another differently.
You are standing at a threshold in your relationship and want support as you decide whether you are repairing the relationship, changing its form, or bringing it to a conscious close.
You want to honor what you have shared, tend what remains unresolved, and move forward with clarity and care, whether you continue together or choose to part.
You want to mark a new chapter in your relationship, celebrate your bond, or consciously deepen your commitment to one another.
You are welcome here regardless of orientation, identity, or the shape of your relationship.
What To Expect
Offered in person.
Sessions open with a grounding coherence meditation and close the same way.
Each person is heard, seen, witnessed, and acknowledged. Each person also witnesses the other, and that is often where the shift happens.
There is spaciousness here, and a listening to the field underneath what is being said.
What arises shapes the session. You may be tending a rupture, working through a transition, or simply wanting more intimacy, vulnerability, pleasure, and connection in your relationship. The session follows what is present between you and what you want to create together.
Relational work takes attention and practice. Whether you are repairing what has been hurt or strengthening what you already share, consistency gives the relationship somewhere to grow.
“I came to this work with my family because we were fractured after years of unspoken grief and unresolved conflict following a major loss. Our conversations circled the same pain, and every gathering felt tense and emotionally loaded. We loved one another, and we could not find a way to speak honestly without reopening old wounds or shutting down completely. The distance between us felt fixed, and we did not know how to repair it.
Naomi worked with each of us individually and then brought us together in ceremony. She helped us slow down and see how our behaviors, words, and emotional patterns were shaping the family field. Through prayer, guided dialogue, and witnessing practices, she helped us name the grief we had never fully shared and the roles we had each taken on to survive it. She guided us in identifying what belonged to us to hold and what we had been carrying for one another. She helped us learn how to speak from our inner experience and how to listen without taking responsibility for someone else’s pain.” - Tara Eastman
“We came to Naomi as a couple because our relationship had become strained by years of unresolved conflict and growing emotional distance. We were caught in repeating arguments that never led anywhere, and both of us felt misunderstood and worn down. Love was still present, and trust felt fragile. We could not find a way to communicate without slipping into defense or silence, and the weight of what had not been addressed was shaping everything between us.
Naomi worked with each of us individually and then guided us together in ceremony. She helped us slow down and see how our reactions and protective patterns were shaping the relational field. Through prayer, guided dialogue, and witnessing practices, she helped us name what had been left unsaid and how pain bodies were driving our interactions. She supported us in learning how to speak from our inner experience with responsibility and how to listen without trying to fix or manage one another.” - Natalie Rose
Investment
Couples sessions and Medicine Days are offered at different lengths, with pricing based on the container you choose.
