Temple Work for Couples, Families & Friends
An invitation to return to the deeper current of love that remains beneath the rupture.
In relationships, love often becomes buried beneath layers of hurt and misunderstanding. Over time, pain begins to speak louder than the heart. You may find yourself relating to a partner, family member, or close loved one through old wounds rather than presence. You may speak from reaction instead of clarity. You may assume the worst rather than seeing the truth of who the other is. The bond that once felt nourishing can begin to feel heavy beneath the weight of what remains unhealed.
This work opens a sacred field where all of this is welcomed to the altar. You are invited to bring your feelings, your history, and your lived experience to be seen, heard, and honored. Every part of your shared journey has a place here to be acknowledged and tended with reverence. This is ceremony. It is a consecrated space where the love that binds you is remembered and the deeper current of your connection is restored.
You step into this holy field together, side by side. The burdens you have been carrying are no longer held between you. They are held by the field and allowed to soften and dissolve. You meet one another again without the distortion of accumulated hurt. You speak from the clarity of your whole and healed self. You learn to recognize pain without collapsing into it, and you are guided to remain present with compassion and truth.
As the layers soften, the space for intimacy and trust deepens. Bodies and hearts find their way back to resting together. The ceremony clears static from the field and restores resonance so that the relationship becomes a place where love, safety, and honest connection can grow again.
The work unfolds through a weaving of prayer, ritual, body based healing, sacred dialogue, and shamanic therapy. Before entering the shared ceremonial space, each person participates in an individual one to one session. This allows personal truth to be honored and witnessed without interruption. It prepares the field so that you can meet one another with greater openness, responsibility, and clarity.
The shared ceremony is where the deeper tending takes place. You are guided to release pain that has accumulated over time. Patterns that have created distance are softened and reworked. Through prayer, presence, and healing touch when appropriate, the relational field is attuned back into harmony.
The journey begins with a half day ceremony of four hours devoted entirely to the tending of the relationship. Time allows the layers to unfold so the healing can move deeply enough to take root. For some, this marks the beginning of a renewed path together. For others, it becomes a threshold where a new way of relating, loving, and creating life together is embraced.
Who Is This For?
Couples, Families & Friends
You are here for the repair of a fracture.
You feel that you and your partner, family member, or close loved one have lost your way and cannot find your way back to love.
You sense that the bond between you is clouded by the weight of what has come before.
You feel the distance that has grown through unresolved hurt, unspoken grief, or misunderstandings that were never tended.
Your relationship is calling for deep renewal.
You long to be heard, witnessed, and acknowledged.
You want to return to the current of love that lives beneath repeating conflict or long held silence.
You feel caught in cycles of misunderstanding that never fully resolve, and you feel exhausted by patterns that continue despite effort and intention.
You may believe the fault lives entirely with the other, and you may feel worn down by their behavior.
You may feel unseen in the care you have been giving, and this dynamic has become heavy to carry alone.
You may be holding grief that has never had a place to be shared.
You may be longing for forgiveness, or for the space to forgive in your own time and way.
You are ready to lay down the weapons of defense.
You are willing to meet vulnerability with honesty.
You may be standing at the threshold of repair, or you may be standing at the threshold of separation.
You may be seeking to uncouple with consciousness and grace.
You want to clear the hurts of the past so you can move forward in a well way.
You desire to honor the history of your bond, whether you are restoring the relationship or releasing the form it has taken.
You are welcome here regardless of orientation, identity, or the shape of your relationship.
What to Expect
I offer this work both in person and virtually, and I hold the field with the same care, attention, and precision in either format. When you arrive, I orient to the relational field you share and to each of you as individuals within it. I meet you where you are, without assigning fault or positioning one person as the problem. I work with the relationship itself as a living field that can be seen, understood, and tended.
I work with you together and individually within the same container. This allows the full relational dynamic to become visible without collapsing into blame, defense, or story. Through presence, prayer, and ritual, I slow the field so truth can surface in a way that can be received. This creates the conditions for listening, witnessing, and honest recognition without escalation or shutdown.
I work creatively and responsively with what is alive in the moment. I use ritual, witnessing practices, guided inquiry, and relational processes to help you see how your words, actions, and protective strategies are shaping the shared field. I help you recognize where pain bodies, conditioned responses, and inherited patterns are driving the dynamic, so these patterns can be tended rather than repeated.
I help you understand how each of you is designed to move through the world. I draw on Human Design and relational dynamics to illuminate how each of you processes emotion, stress, decision making, and responsibility. This supports you in learning how to speak your inner landscape with clarity and accountability, and how to listen without taking on what does not belong to you.
I help you identify what you are holding that is yours to tend and what you have been carrying that is not. Together, we clarify boundaries, unwind codependent patterns, and restore a clearer sense of responsibility within the relationship. I guide you in learning how to place what you are holding where it belongs, rather than continuing to carry it through resentment, collapse, or over effort.
I help you create practical structures that support repair, change, and ongoing relational health. This includes new ways of communicating, clearer agreements, and rhythms of tending that support the life you are actually living. I focus on restoring coherence so the next steps become clear.
I often guide people into deeper in person containers through Medicine Days and Retreats. These extended spaces allow repair and reorganization to happen at a depth that is not available in shorter sessions. They support both individual and relational transformation and create the conditions for lasting change.
My intention is to support clarity, responsibility, and truth. This path may lead toward repair and renewed connection, or it may lead toward conscious completion. In either case, I support you in moving forward with integrity, understanding, and a deeper connection to yourself and to what is true.
“I came to this work with my family because we were fractured after years of unspoken grief and unresolved conflict following a major loss. Our conversations circled the same pain, and every gathering felt tense and emotionally loaded. We loved one another, and we could not find a way to speak honestly without reopening old wounds or shutting down completely. The distance between us felt fixed, and we did not know how to repair it.
Naomi worked with each of us individually and then brought us together in ceremony. She helped us slow down and see how our behaviors, words, and emotional patterns were shaping the family field. Through prayer, guided dialogue, and witnessing practices, she helped us name the grief we had never fully shared and the roles we had each taken on to survive it. She guided us in identifying what belonged to us to hold and what we had been carrying for one another. She helped us learn how to speak from our inner experience and how to listen without taking responsibility for someone else’s pain.”
- Tara Eastman
“We came to Naomi as a couple because our relationship had become strained by years of unresolved conflict and growing emotional distance. We were caught in repeating arguments that never led anywhere, and both of us felt misunderstood and worn down. Love was still present, and trust felt fragile. We could not find a way to communicate without slipping into defense or silence, and the weight of what had not been addressed was shaping everything between us.
Naomi worked with each of us individually and then guided us together in ceremony. She helped us slow down and see how our reactions and protective patterns were shaping the relational field. Through prayer, guided dialogue, and witnessing practices, she helped us name what had been left unsaid and how pain bodies were driving our interactions. She supported us in learning how to speak from our inner experience with responsibility and how to listen without trying to fix or manage one another.” - Natalie Rose
Investment
This sacred journey begins with each person booking an individual one to one session. These sessions honor your unique voice, history, and lived experience, and they prepare the field so that when you come together in ceremony, you can meet with greater openness, clarity, and responsibility.
After your individual sessions are complete, you step into the shared relational ceremony. This ceremony is held for couples, family members, and close relational bonds who are seeking repair, clarity, forgiveness, or conscious completion. The focus is on tending the relationship itself as a living field and supporting a truthful way forward.
Individual Session Rates: $222 Hour
Couples, Families & Relational Sessions: Prices listed are for 2 people max.
1 hour 30 minutes - $495.00
2-Hour Couple’s Ceremony - $666
Half-Day Couple’s Ceremony - $1,333
Full-Day Couple’s Ceremony - $2,222
(Temple of Devotion Members Receive 20% OFF)
Step One: Each person books an individual one-to-one session.
Step Two: After those sessions are complete, schedule your shared ceremony by calling or texting
