Temple Work for Relationships
Couples, Families, Friends
An invitation to return to the deeper current of love that remains beneath the rupture.
In relationships, love gets buried beneath layers of betrayal, frustration, exhaustion, trauma, past hurts, and misunderstandings that accumulate over time.
The argument is rarely about the thing you are arguing about. Underneath it sits a need that went unspoken, a fear neither of you named, a hurt that arrived long before this relationship did. That is what keeps the cycle turning, and it is why the same conversation returns no matter how carefully either of you tries to have it differently.
Humans heal through relationship, not in isolation. Relationship is where the untended places surface, which is what makes it the hardest ground and the most fertile.
Friendships, families, and partnerships all need tending. Without it, what went unsaid accumulates, and the relationship itself begins to carry the weight. Over time that density separates you from your own heart, from the medicine that lives in it, and from the ability to see the other clearly, until the bond that once felt nourishing begins to feel heavy.
Here, the hurt that has accumulated is met and tended, and the patterns that created the distance soften. What is between you becomes a place where love, safety, and honest connection grow again, and intimacy and trust deepen as the layers release, so that bodies and hearts find their way back to resting together.
Each session begins with a coherence meditation, setting the tone for our time together, and from there the session meets the shared intention.
You will learn the art of personal and relational sovereignty. Each person is heard, seen, witnessed, and acknowledged, and each person also witnesses the other. You learn to speak what is true from your inner experience, to listen without taking on what does not belong to you, and to know what is yours to tend and what you have been carrying for someone else. Boundaries become clearer, the roles you have each taken on begin to loosen, and responsibility lands where it belongs.
Repair takes time, and the layers unfold at the pace they need to move deeply enough to take root. For some this is the beginning of a renewed path together, and for others it becomes a threshold where a new way of relating, loving, and creating life together is embraced.
To begin, I ask that each person books an individual 90 minute session. From there we work together, whether the repair is between partners, within a family, or between friends.
Who Is This For?
Couples, Families & Friends
You are here for the repair of a fracture. You feel that you and your partner, family member, or close loved one have lost your way and cannot find your way back to love.
You sense that what is between you is clouded by the weight of what has come before, and you feel the distance that has grown through unresolved hurt, unspoken grief, or misunderstandings that were never tended.
You feel caught in cycles of misunderstanding that never fully resolve, and you are exhausted by patterns that continue despite effort and intention.
You may believe the fault lives entirely with the other, and you may feel worn down by their behavior. You may feel unseen in the care you have been giving, and this dynamic has become heavy to carry alone.
You may be holding grief that has never had a place to be shared, or longing for forgiveness, or for the space to forgive in your own time and way.
You long to be heard, witnessed, and acknowledged, and to return to the current of love that lives beneath repeating conflict and long held silence.
You are ready to lay down the weapons of defense and to meet vulnerability with honesty.
You may be standing at the threshold of repair, or at the threshold of separation, seeking to part with consciousness and grace. You want to clear the hurts of the past so you can move forward in a well way, honoring the history of what you have shared whether you are restoring it or releasing the form it has taken.
You are welcome here regardless of orientation, identity, or the shape of your relationships.
What To Expect
Offered in person and virtually.
Sessions open with a grounding coherence meditation and close the same way.
Each person is heard, seen, witnessed, and acknowledged. Each person also witnesses the other, and that is often where the shift happens.
There is spaciousness here, and a listening to the field underneath what is being said.
What arises shapes the session. Whether you have come for a rupture or for ongoing care, the work follows what is present between you, guided toward relational clarity.
Consistency is key. Depending on the rupture, repair takes time and commitment.
“I came to this work with my family because we were fractured after years of unspoken grief and unresolved conflict following a major loss. Our conversations circled the same pain, and every gathering felt tense and emotionally loaded. We loved one another, and we could not find a way to speak honestly without reopening old wounds or shutting down completely. The distance between us felt fixed, and we did not know how to repair it.
Naomi worked with each of us individually and then brought us together in ceremony. She helped us slow down and see how our behaviors, words, and emotional patterns were shaping the family field. Through prayer, guided dialogue, and witnessing practices, she helped us name the grief we had never fully shared and the roles we had each taken on to survive it. She guided us in identifying what belonged to us to hold and what we had been carrying for one another. She helped us learn how to speak from our inner experience and how to listen without taking responsibility for someone else’s pain.” - Tara Eastman
“We came to Naomi as a couple because our relationship had become strained by years of unresolved conflict and growing emotional distance. We were caught in repeating arguments that never led anywhere, and both of us felt misunderstood and worn down. Love was still present, and trust felt fragile. We could not find a way to communicate without slipping into defense or silence, and the weight of what had not been addressed was shaping everything between us.
Naomi worked with each of us individually and then guided us together in ceremony. She helped us slow down and see how our reactions and protective patterns were shaping the relational field. Through prayer, guided dialogue, and witnessing practices, she helped us name what had been left unsaid and how pain bodies were driving our interactions. She supported us in learning how to speak from our inner experience with responsibility and how to listen without trying to fix or manage one another.” - Natalie Rose
Investment
This journey begins with each person booking an individual one to one session. These sessions honor your unique voice, history, and lived experience, and they prepare the field so that when you come together in ceremony, you can meet with greater openness, clarity, and responsibility.
After your individual sessions are complete, you step into the shared relational ceremony. This ceremony is held for couples, family members, and close relational bonds who are seeking repair, clarity, forgiveness, or conscious completion. The focus is on tending the relationship itself as a living field and supporting a truthful way forward.
Individual sessions are $222 per hour. Pricing for shared ceremonies is listed on the booking page
(Temple of Devotion Members receive 20% OFF)
Step One: Each person books an individual 90 minute session.
Step Two: Once those sessions are complete, schedule your shared ceremony.
